Finding Time

You will never "find" time....Do you ever find yourself saying if I could find the time I would…insert what you’ve been longing to do?

I’ve been finding myself doing that quite often lately. And you know, the time is always there. It’s up to you to make the time for it.

If you want to go to the pool for an afternoon, go to the lake and spend the day, visit your mom or your grandma, or sit by the bonfire, go do it! Make the time for it.

Whatever else it is that you think you have to do, can wait.

Or prioritize your day/evening so you can make both things happen. It’s totally doable!

“You will never “find” time for anything. If you want time, you must make it.”- Charles Bruxton

My family and I found the time to relax and sit by the bonfire. It was much needed and brought us all together. It’s important to make time for moments like this.

Warmly,

Gretchen

Communication – The Human Connection

Communication - the human connection - is the key to personal and career success. -Paul J. MeyerLet’s talk about communication. Do you know how important communication is?

No really, have you ever really sat and thought about it?

Communicating is how we do everything! We communicate with our voice, actions, and our body. It’s a true representation of who we are. One gets to know us, our personality, likes and dislikes all by communicating.

When there’s the lack of it, often times troubles begin. We make assumptions, possibly start second-guessing ourselves and could even risk losing friendships or working relationships over it. Communicating effectively is key! I encourage you to take time to discover how you do it best and use it to your fullest potential. You have so much to gain!

This quote is pretty spot on!

“Communication – the human connection – is the key to personal and career success.” -Paul J. Meyer

Go ahead. Do it. See what you’ve got!

Warmly,

Gretchen

You Got to Move It…Move It!

You've Got to Move It...Move It!Do certain seasons put you into motion?

With having fairly long winters here in Ohio, spring is the season that really does this for me! My mind actually goes into overdrive with the playing + planning of all things that can now be done outside. My family and I really enjoy the outdoors so this is a win-win for all of us.

The same is true for my business. I’m currently enrolled in a 3-month coaching program that’s really helping me catapult my business in all the ways I desire. I’m definitely learning a lot and there’s lots of action that has to be taken.

“Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit.” – Conrad Hilton

I know it’s worth it. Just like this inspirational quote, taking action = results!

Is there an action you’d like to be taking whether it be personally or professionally and find yourself resisting? If so, why?

Are you ready to make big things happen and take action, but aren’t quite sure where to start? Let’s talk! Click here to see if I can help you discover how to take action so you can get ahead! It’s free and quick so no need to wait. I can’t wait to talk with you!!

With much love and gratitude,

Gretchen

Success: What’s Your Definition?

Success: What’s Your Definition?Do you ever get caught up in the thought that you could be more successful? Like you should be doing more?

You see your friends curating the heck out of their life to make it look always amazing on social media. You hear about co-workers being offered a great new position. You see your neighbor driving a new car.

Ugg! It’s a sure way to make a person feel less than successful that’s for sure.

But, in what ways can you see success in yourself?

What one person sees as success is failure for another, right? Or it very likely could be.

Working a corporate job, 40 hrs/week and dressed in heels might sound great to a lot of people. Just like going for an 8am run, working in your comfy clothes, and calling it quits at 4:30 pm each day (except Friday because that’s your day off) is success to others.

And, of course both of these scenarios can seem like sparkles and unicorns to someone from the outside when in fact they’re nothing like that in reality. Thinking of success in this way makes it way too easy, way too black and white. So I’m asking. Can you dig deeper to decide what success really means to you?

How is your definition of success different from your BFF’s? Your parents? Your significant other’s or sibling’s? Go ahead and ask them what success means or looks like to them. Can you see the subtle differences there?

Maybe it’s your salary or how much you volunteer at your kid’s school that equates with success. What are your personal benchmarks for success?

It can be helpful to think about success in a very fundamental way first. Are your basic needs met? —Food, clothing, shelter, etc?

Then ask what have you done in life that you’re proud of?

I know you may be humble, and this may be hard to remember. And if you’re having a particularly rough day, it might be even harder to remember. If this is the case, go ask your friends or significant other as they may surprise you with what they remember (and were impressed with).

Maybe it was saving to buy a car, paying off your school loans, or graduating from college. Maybe it was that time you decided to take a leap of faith and start your own business.  

This all brings it into focus. Success is subjective. The cool part is that YOU get to decide what it means.What are your personal measures of success? How do you define success for you?

The clearer you get on this definition of success, the easier it is to know when you’ve achieved it.

I’d love to hear what you define as success. Would you please share with me here?

With much love and gratitude,

Gretchen

 

Do You Wander Outside of Your Comfort Zone?

Do You wander Outside of Your Comfort Zone?

I’m ready to adventure out! I’m committed to being more involved with my community as well as scheduling networking lunches and attending networking events. Now, this is totally shared with you from a place of love, joy, and enthusiasm while it also makes me a bit nervous.

That’s why this quote resonates so much for me right now:

“All progress takes place outside the comfort zone.” – Michael John Bobak

These are truly things I want to do (am going to do!), however, they take me just a tad bit outside of my comfort zone. Since I’ve now been working from home for almost 12 years (how did that happen?!), it’s a process of learning and connecting with new folks.

I’ve got a great plan of action in place and I’m seeing the results of working that plan already. I know I can do this as it’s just a matter of planning and taking action! Can you relate?

If you’re ready to finally relate to this kind of excitement about your plan working out, let’s talk! Click here to grab a zero-stress chat to see if I can help you learn how how to take action so you can see the results you want and feel super successful! It’s free and quick so no need to wait. …did I mention it’s a great no-pressure way to know how to get ahead? 😉

With much love and gratitude,

Gretchen

Are You Nudging Your Success Forward?

Are You Nudging Your Success Forward? How much exercise are you getting?

How much journaling and mindwork are you doing to make your life better?

Are you finding yourself hitting the drive-thru at the fast food place instead of making a healthy lunch?

Why is it that doing these kinds of activities feel like a chore?—Even when you know how much better you’d feel after doing them.

Maybe it’s that you don’t feel like you have enough time for them? Maybe you’re overwhelmed and overworked and can’t see how in the world these good habits can be worked into your schedule?

I totally hear you!!

But…

What if you considered these very important tasks as mandatory?  What if exercise and food prep were as important to your success as writing that perfect email or meeting your client deadline?

How would your week be different if it was structured to focus on a kind of success that counts on you incorporating these things that are missing into your routine?

What if you considered these elements as part of your JOB even though people don’t typically think they should be?

Why should you approach being successful this way?

Because if you don’t value these elements, you won’t do them.

However, if you treat them like a part of your job, you can get them done and move further ahead than you thought.

If you step back and really look at your schedule and your goals, you might just surprise yourself by the wiggle room you can find to incorporate the things you care about and that you truly need worked into your regular routine.

When you shift your perspective, that client call, responding to emails, or reviewing text, it starts to be as equally important as journaling for your mindset, getting in a good workout, and eating healthy.

How?

Ask yourself, what’s one thing that you need to add to your schedule. Maybe it’s an exercise class? Can you do a morning workout at the start of your day or maybe at lunch? Can you set up a treadmill desk? Can you find one single exercise to do every day, even if it’s small like touching your toes?

Maybe you have a cranky boss who you fear might not be into the idea of you coming in a little late or leaving for lunch a little early. Can you convince the boss or your co-worker to exercise at the same time as you? Odds are they need these success elements worked into their routine, too. 😉

I encourage you to get creative and think about ways you can make this idea work.

It is very likely that your mind will try to trick you by telling you that you can’t or don’t need to exercise, eat healthy or whatever your “additional” thing is. This is very common since what you’re wanting to do is not a part of your normal routine. It’s easy to stay comfortable with what we’ve been doing, even though we want more.

If you want more, you have to make changes to get it. The reason your mind starts sending those “no” thoughts your way is only your primal, lizard brain trying to keep you safe. I encourage you to really listen to your body and heart rather than what your head is likely going to tell you.

Your ultimate goal is to focus on what you can do to make exercise or writing or meditating or eating healthy a regular habit.

It can feel nuts to think of it this way but when you start to upgrade your everyday by treating your nice-to-have elements as equals with your have-to-have elements, it automatically makes it easier to work more efficiently, with more clarity and more successfully.

You reach the results you want MUCH faster when you look at your job and life with a holistic approach like this. You’ll find that when you take care of the elements that feel like “nice-to-haves” everything else is better.

If you look at some of the most successful people out there, you’ll find that they attribute much of their success to this approach of treating what they once considered nice-to-haves as must-haves. Wildly successful people like Marie Forleo and Tim Ferriss and have found the wiggle room and see the difference this holistic approach has on their success. You can, too!

I committed to doing more exercise and eating better by hiring a health coach who I adore. This requires me to make time for 30 minutes of exercise each day and to prep my meals each day. We’re talking serious grocery lists and meal proportions.

Even though I’m sore from my new routine, I’m 100% committed. I can see how it’s going to make me and even my family more successful. My energy levels are rising and I know I’ll be able to translate what I learn from working out and planning my meals to my business so I can be more successful.

I challenge you to give it a try. What’s one area where you think you can find a way to wedge in that good-for-you thing? Let me know in the comments.

With much love and gratitude,

Gretchen