“Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.” -Stephen Covey
This quote resonates for me because boundaries are part of that trust.
People know what you are willing to do and what you aren’t so they can trust you. They can trust how you’ll act, how you’ll show up, and how you’ll support them or not.
Trust is a required element for setting and keeping boundaries.
You have to tow your own line and expect that others will tow the line of keeping their boundaries. Otherwise, you’ll never know if you’re crossing them.
You’re not a mind reader, right? So this makes sense. You’re trusting that others will tell you when you cross the line or are about to so you can have a good relationship.
As you must do the same for them. It’s a mutual trust.
When have you let someone know that they overstepped one of your boundaries? How did you feel after doing so and how did they respond?
I’d love to hear about it in the comments.
With much love and gratitude,
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