Have you ever been guilty of this? I know I have, and I just had an experience that really reminded me to seriously think about my answer before I jump the gun and dive in with a Yes.
A great friend and colleague of mine approached me with a new business venture. I was stoked! We met up several times (she’s local; YAY!), mapped things out, started focusing deeper and deeper. Then, I realized that while I was stoked about this, I was more stoked for her and this awesome idea she had. It was her heart’s passion work, not mine.
It didn’t take long for me to realize that with the work I’m currently doing for my business and for my clients (that I love doing), I didn’t have the extra time to give to a new venture. But I wanted to help! I knew I could help! I wanted to make her vision become a reality! But the true reality was, this wasn’t for me to do. I should have thought this through and said no from the beginning.
So the next conversation was hard. I procrastinated, but in the end, it was fine. We’re still the greatest of friends and she completely understands. It’s life and sometimes we make mistakes, and that’s okay.
Looking back at the situation now, I know I should have said no for many reasons, but I chose not to follow my heart or listen to my intuition. I wanted to be the natural nurturer that I am.
Another great reminder and lesson learned.
With love and gratitude,
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